Monday, March 30, 2009

This is what dreams are made off, no pun intended!!!!

Friday, March 27, 2009

N.A.S.A. - "GIFTED" VIDEO (FEAT. KANYE WEST x SANTIGOLD x LYKKE LI)

N.A.S.A ....I love their music they are a more electronic, funk hip hop group based out of Los Angeles, their album is great, so many collabos on it, The Spirit of Apollo is the name of it, i adbise you take your time and listen to it....

Monday, March 23, 2009

Keri Hilson ft. Kanye West & Ne-Yo "Knock You Down"

I REALLY LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Chrisette Michelle-"Epiphany"

If you are a real fan of gfood music, i advise you to listen to Chrisette Michelle...OMG!!!! she is a superb songwriter and a talented singer i might add, im in love with her new single "Epiphany".

Monday, March 9, 2009

The 12 Steps of Intimacy [or bonding]......



Let me explain why sexual abstinence is so important to marriage and how it is related to the process of bonding. I consider the concept of marital bonding to be one of the most vital understandings ever offered on the subject of long-term marriage.

Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth. It is God'sgift of companionship to those who have experienced it.

But how does this bonding occur and why is it missing in so many relationships? According to Drs. Joy and Morris, bonding is most likely to develop among those who have moved systematically and slowly through twelve steps during their courtship and early marriage. These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.

1. Eye to Body. A glance reveals much about a person -- sex, size, shape, age, personality, and status. The importance people place on these criteria determines whether or not they will be attracted to each other.

2. Eye to Eye. When the man and woman who are strangers to each other exchange glances, their most natural reaction is to look away, usually with embarrassment. If their eyes meet again, they may smile, which signals that they might like to become better acquainted.

3. Voice to Voice. Their initial conversations are trivial and include questions like "What is your name?" or "What do you do for a living?" During this long stage the two people learn much about each other's opinions, pastimes, activities, habits, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they're compatible, they become friends.

4. Hand to Hand. The first instance of physical contact between the couple is usually a non-romantic occasion such as when the man helps the woman descend a high step or aids her across an obstacle. At this point either of the individuals can withdraw from the relationship without rejecting the other. However, if continued, hand-to-hand contact will eventually become an evidence of the couple's romantic attachment to each other.

5. Hand to Shoulder. This affectionate embrace is still noncommittal. It is a "buddy" type position in which the man and woman are side by side. They are more concerned with the world in front of them than they are with each other. The hand-to-shoulder contact reveals a relationship that is more than a close friendship, but probably not real love.

6. Hand to Waist. Because this is something two people of the same sex would not ordinarily do, it is clearly romantic. They are close enough to be sharing secrets or intimate language with each other. Yet, as they walk side by side with hand to waist, they are still facing forward.

7. Face to Face. This level of contact involves gazing into one another's eyes, hugging and kissing. If none of the previous steps were skipped, the man and woman will have developed a special code from experience that enables them to engage in deep communication with very few words. At this point, sexual desire becomes an important factor in the relationship.

8. Hand to Head. This is an extension of the previous stage. The man and woman tend to cradle or stroke each other's head while kissing or talking. Rarely do individuals in our culture touch the head of another person unless they are either romantically involved or are family members. It is a designation of emotional closeness.

9-12. The Final Steps. The last four levels of involvement are distinctly sexual and private. They are:

(9) Hand to Body,
(10) Mouth to Breast,
(11) Touching Below the Waist, and
(12) Intercourse.

Obviously, the final acts of physical contact should be reserved for the maritalrelationship, since they are progressively sexual and intensely personal.

What Joy and Morris are saying is that intimacy must proceed slowly if a male-female relationship is to achieve its full potential. When two people love each other deeply and are committed for life, they have usually developed a great volume of understandings between them that would be considered insignificant to anyone else. They share countless private memories unknown to the rest of the world.

That is in large measure where their sense of specialness to one another originates. Furthermore, the critical factor is that they have taken these steps in sequence. When later stages are reached prematurely, such as when couples kiss passionately on the first date or have sexual intercourse before marriage, something precious is lost from the relationship. Instead, their courtship should be nurtured through leisurely walks and talks and "Lover's Secrets" that lay the foundation for mutual intimacy. Now we can see how the present environment of sexual permissiveness and lust serves to weaken the institution of marriage and undermine the stability of the family.

The Dream"My Love" ft Mariah Carey and "Rocking that Thang Remix" ft Fabolous, Juelz Santana, Rick Ross, and Ludacris



ELECTRIK RED - “SO GOOD”

Electrik Red is group signed to the Radio Killa/Def Jam imprint which houses the popular R&B sensation The Dream. The Dream has discovered this group and decided to sign them under his record label. They have a unique sound and style making them very different from other groups, they have singles such as "Friend Lover", and "Drink in My Cup". look out for them......

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Music Soulchild-"SoBeautiful"

I love this song and i believe if i were to get married i would have this guy sing this song to my wife while we have our first dance, i try to imagine as if life were a music video, the fun they have the creativity that is embedded in to making these visual effects that make imagine ourselves in that position make you want to dream and be where they are....music makes me realize that there is such a place where anything can become real, where any fantasy can be seen, MUSIC IS LIFE!!!!!!!

Musiq Soulchild - "sobeautiful"

Wednesday, March 4, 2009